'Refresh not reply'

These days it is so easy to make indirect comments due to the wide spread of social networking out there but one of the biggest companies that makes this so easy is Twitter. 

Twitter is used by thousands of people and is a space to freely say and do what you want which is great because it is a way of interacting with other people including celebrities...but when what your saying is hurting others? It's not so good.

I understand that indirected messages can be sarcastic comments or regarding strangers (like stating something about the bus driver or the woman sitting beside you on the way home...pretty sure that old woman was listening to JLS!) but when there is the possibility of that message hurting someone's feelings...it shouldn't be said. The saying 'think it but don't say it' comes to mind. It's not smart or mature to do so...especially when the victim of the message is able to read it.

I know first hand how this feels, it knocks your confidence and makes you feel so small when in matter of fact the author of the tweet is the one that should feel small because it just shows what they are like as a person...if they can't say something to your face why make these comments behind a screen? 

Personally I believe that if someone feels the need to make a comment on a social media site yet doesn't have the decency to say it to your face, then you shouldn't bother with people like that. Surround yourself with level-headed like-minded people and trust me, you will feel much better. The positivity and happiness you experience will radiate off you and make others feel the same.

'Refresh not reply' was something I decided to do in 2014 and if this issue has affected you, why don't you try it to? Don't interact with the people who indirect you because it just boosts their ego and encourages them to keep doing it because they know it has a affect on you. 

Esmee x

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